In a bold and fiery message that’s already going viral, renowned clergyman Apostle Johnson Suleman has warned men to step up as partners—not overbearing fathers—ahead of Valentine’s Day. His comments have sparked debates online about love, control, and respect in relationships.
The Stern Warning
During a recent sermon, Suleman told men: “You are a boyfriend, not a father. Stop controlling, stop bossing, and start respecting your partner as an equal.” He emphasized that relationships thrive on understanding and partnership, not dominance or unsolicited parenting behavior.
Social Media Reacts
The viral message has divided opinions:
- Supporters hailed Suleman for calling out toxic relationship habits, praising the sermon as “truth every man needs to hear.”
- Critics and skeptics argued that his delivery was harsh but acknowledged the importance of accountability in romantic partnerships.
Hashtags like #SulemanSpeaks, #BoyfriendNotFather, and #ValentinesWarning trended, with users sharing personal experiences of controlling partners and discussing what healthy love looks like.
Experts Weigh In
Relationship coaches agree that healthy partnerships require mutual respect, boundaries, and equality. They caution that treating partners as subordinates can lead to resentment, conflict, and relationship breakdowns.
A Viral Valentine’s Reminder
As Valentine’s Day approaches, Suleman’s fiery warning serves as both a caution and a call to action: men should love responsibly, lead with respect, and stop confusing control with care.
“You are a boyfriend, not a father!”—a declaration that has social media buzzing and reminding couples that love works best when it’s equal, not authoritarian.
