In a candid and heartfelt revelation, a 31-year-old man who identifies as a POS (Parent-Dependent Single) has opened up about the realities of living with his parents well into adulthood. Determined to clarify that his story isn’t about seeking sympathy, he shared the daily challenges, societal judgments, and personal battles that come with his living situation.
“I’m not looking for pity,” he said, describing the fine line between dependence and independence, and the stigma often attached to adults who remain in their parents’ home. From managing expectations to navigating personal ambitions, his story resonates with many who face similar pressures in Ghana and beyond.
Social media users have reacted strongly, with debates erupting on whether living with parents in your 30s is a sign of modern pragmatism, financial necessity, or societal failure. Some praised his honesty, while others shared their own experiences, sparking a broader conversation about adulthood, independence, and mental health.
For this man, speaking out is about transparency and self-reflection — proving that being a 31-year-old POS doesn’t mean he lacks dreams, drive, or dignity.


