Ladies are so vigilant and keen about everything that steps their way. Most are quite ununderstandable and even difficult to start a conversation with. Anytime you try asking them out, they have every right to reject your offer.
See reasons a girl would automatically reject you if you ask her out:
Learning Where You Stand
Figure out why they rejected you. This can be difficult because you don’t want to seem desperate or overly hurt, but if your crush didn’t give you a good answer as to why they didn’t want to go out with you, it could be good to meet up with them and ask a few questions to gain some insight as to what they are thinking.
People are often caught off-guard when asked out, so a lot of times they come up with an answer on the spot that may not be the complete truth. Calmly approach your crush and ask them if they wouldn’t mind grabbing coffee (not as a date) because you wanted to talk through some things with them. Then, when you are together, ask if there was a specific reason they didn’t want to go out with you or if your approach was what turned them off. Do not then proceed to ask them out again, but thank them for giving you some insight and be understanding and be patient
Examine your approach. Did you just ask someone out that you didn’t know in a very demeaning manner, were you confident or really nervous in your approach, or did you catch your friend off guard and they didn’t know how to respond? If you have asked other people out, think about the approaches that were successful and those that weren’t and think about how you came across to your crush.
Respect their answer. If you asked someone out and were rejected, don’t insist on taking them on a date. It can seem desperate and be incredibly annoying to your crush if you persist when they’ve already told you no. Once you have figured out why they rejected you, respect their answer and don’t ask them out again right away.
What Do You Like About Me”
Be patient. As previously stated, you want to respect the person you asked out by giving them time. Sometimes people need to process and think over things, and over time they may realize that they are interested in you. Giving your crush space to think over their feelings towards you could lead to a much more positive answer later on.
Act like you were not fazed. One of the biggest ways to show you were hurt by rejection is by acting weird or awkward around your crush or stepping completely out of their life. Now, you don’t want to over-assert yourself into their life, but it’s helpful to act casual around them and not show any pain. If you step out of their life completely and become distant, you’ll lose an opportunity to ask them out later on.
In some cases, people do need space, and after they learn that you are interested in them, they feel awkward and don’t want to be around you all the time. Feel out the situation to see if it’s best if you step back for a while or if you should be as present as you were before. It is important, though, that you don’t show your crush you were incredibly hurt or that the rejection made you insecure. Most people don’t find insecurity attractive, so continue to act confident.
Attract an Older Boy
Become friendly with your crush again.After you have given your crush some time to think over things, it’s time to get back into their life. You may have decided to act like things are normal or maybe you gave them some space, but before you plan to ask them out again, you want to develop a relationship with them.
If you weren’t friends before, then becoming friends may be the key to gaining a date with your crush. It’s possible that they didn’t feel comfortable going out with someone they didn’t know, so helping them get to know you could better your chances when you ask them out again.
If you were friends before, you don’t want to just go right back to where you were before in the friend zone. That may lead your crush to think that you have accepted there is no future between the two of you, and your crush may stop considering the possibility that you still like them. It’s best to develop a friendship again but to show that you are interested in other things too, then they won’t feel awkward around you.
Be Sweet Step
Clean yourself up. This isn’t a shoo-in, but it always helps someone say yes to a date if they find you attractive. Consider going to a gym or trying out a different hairstyle to pique your crush’s interest. It’s also important that you have proper hygiene — people don’t usually want to go out with someone who doesn’t take care of their body!