Love 💕 is an abstract bound in relationships. Most of the times, for young partners, it’s stressing showing your love. What if she gets bored to to your text messages when on distance relationships???. What if he or she gets occupied with lots of work and unable to make time with you.
Find these ways to make love to your girlfriend.
1. You Have To Be Happy First.
This is the most important thing. If you want your girl always to be happy, then you have to make yourself happy first.
Put a smile on your face and be in an active tone when you talk to her.
Even if she can’t see you, she will be able to hear your happiness and active tone. You can smile while talking because this will surely make her happy just by hearing your voice.
If you’re smiling while talking to her, she might find it interesting enough to encourage her to have a conversation with you more often.
If not, at least she won’t feel like there’s something wrong, so she will continue listening to what you have to say and like that feeling too.
As for the tone of voice, instead of being flat or lifeless, try putting an extra effort into how eagerly you speak with her, so your words come out naturally without any forced intentions. That way, you’ll know if these simple things can make your girlfriend happy over the phone.
2. Never Neglect To Celebrate The Little Things With Her.
Mentioning the little things that make her happy can strengthen your relationship even more.
You should go along with her enthusiasm and try to show how happy you are for her. I’m pretty sure she will feel best hearing your voice in an active tone and having words of encouragement from you so she will always be able to feel the love from you regardless of how far away you both may be.
3. Keep It Interesting.
A conversation is all about interest. If you have interesting things to talk about, she might not be able to get enough of it, so that she might want more and more.
To keep your girlfriend always happy over the phone, make sure you avoid boring her with the same old topics over and over again.
Even if they are related to a certain topic or activity that both of you share an interest in, you can never go wrong by bringing up new discussions from time to time.
Things like current movies or news that happened recently will surely spark her curiosity so she won’t think monotonous at all.
4. Be A Good Listener.
It doesn’t matter whatever she is talking about, something she did, or something that happened to her, it’s your job as her partner to give her the space and time to talk in detail about it all without any interruptions whatsoever.
If you want to make her happy on the phone, then be a good listener. Never cut off the conversation halfway through just because you can’t wait for others topics to pop up from your side.
Think of sitting next to someone while she tells her favorite stories, still with that smile and active tone even after hearing them many times before!
5. Remember Her Words
Since you’re already giving her a listening ear, then make sure you never forget what she said.
Don’t neglect what she just mentioned, even if the conversation didn’t go in the direction you expected it.
Try to pay attention to her words and use them as references for future conversations with her as time goes by.
This will show how much you respect and love her and remind yourself of the things she likes that you might like too!
6. Compliment Her.
While you’re busy listening to her, offer compliments at the right time.
In between the conversation, she might say something that needs a compliment. She might mention something that makes her happy. You might want to tell her how great she is. These are all good opportunities to do it!
The best time? Make sure you compliment her when the conversation ends with something funny or happy.
It’s a nice way to close up the conversation with an emotional high note, so she feels completely contented by the whole thing afterward.